10/07/2013

A Love Letter

Dear Kids (because you'll always be my kids),

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How am I doing? Have you noticed I've been trying to leave you alone?

I've been very careful not to phone, or email, or text too much. I try not to pry. Or second-guess your decisions.

When you are home and go out in the evening, I do my best to only say good-bye and not ask where you're going.

All in all, I think I'm doing a decent job of letting go and letting you become an adult not tied to the old apron strings. Not that I claim I'm always doing this right, but I think I'm improving and I want you to know I'm trying not to be that annoying mother who insists on clinging to her babies.

But. . .

Don't you think you could call once in a while? Or, perhaps send a quick email. Or even just a text saying, "Hi." Is that really too much to ask? It doesn't even have to be once a week. Maybe once every other week.

I know you're busy, but so am I. And I'll never be too busy to talk to you.

So 

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Love,
Mama

10 comments:

  1. And then there's my mom who insists on trying to micromanage my life and I'm almost 50. Drives me crazy. And that's why I only visit her once a week if I can help it.

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    1. How sad your mom still feels like she needs to try and control your life. You are a good daughter to still visit regularly despite the stress involved.

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  2. Well I am with you. I have let my kids go too - it was the most painful thing I think I have done! lol And my daughter is here and my son is in Ohio. I feel your pain!

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  3. Sweet. I don't think kids understand the love we have for them until they have their own. Then, there's a new understanding. I can so relate to this. Hearing once a week from my kids would be awesome!

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